First of all, let's be clear... I love porn. porn's great...however I think one's love of porn should be a somewhat private thing.

I just had a huge blowout with the bf because I realized that he had added many women from various countries with scantily clad and/or nude profile pics. Many of these are of course, not real profiles, however, they are visible when you visit bf's facebook profile. (As in, to our friends, our families)

On a completely separate note, last weekend he told me he had a new email buddy from Australia with whom he flirts.

When discussing the issue tonight, he actually lied and said he had never had a facebook conversation with any of these women, and that he added them to increase his Mafia Wars mafia.

This is of course incredibly stupid, especially since I actually (ashamedly) looked in his facebook inbox and saw a conversation which he initiated with a woman from Italy, and she did not seem interested, yet he sent her several messages.

I called him on it, and he says he feels bad for lying, and that he didn't realize that this whole thing was really disrespectful and stupid until I called him on it.

How could this not be seen as an immature and generally stupid mistake for a person in a long term realtionship to make?