I was going to go to a swingers club earlier this year but dayum, it was way up there in the suburbs!

The couples I spoke with who were encouraging me to go were really laidback people and just saw it as a kink that made them happy. I would have preferred to go as a single gal because I don't know if I'd be able to swing with someone I loved, however, a lot of those couples were in the swinging scene for years and seemed to have really strong relationships.